Only you can define boring

Don't waste any more time on what other people are doing or what they think about what you do

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"Kate, I think I'm boring."

I'm sitting outside on a mild day enjoying a meal with my mother. 

We're at one of our favorite places. The staff doesn’t rush us out the door (it helps that we define dinner as 3:00 PM.)

While I munch on a particularly good basket of french fries (not all are created equal), I listen to her talk about her friends' activities c…